Men who complain that they are unlucky in love despite their 'nice guy' persona may have a sinister agenda.
The so-called 'Nice Guy', the often physically unattractive man who overcompensates with clingy and over-the-top behaviour to women, is relentlessly mocked online.
In other words, they might use kindness to try and make up for what they lack elsewhere.” The idea is that if you meet someone's needs without them having to ask, they should meet yours.
It seems patently obvious that damaged, rebellious, mysterious and brooding are pretty much the OPPOSITE traits that one would look for in a life partner, yet women still undeniably find them attractive and sexy.
So his idea that simply doing his job entitles him to a date makes even less sense.
Paying for drinks or dinner or anything else does not mean that the recipient owes access to her body to the giver.
I’m not sure what they’re selling, so don’t worry about it.
Just pay attention to the part about women preferring bad boys to nice guys.